Sunday, April 19th, 2009...8:40 am
FREE Podcast – All it Takes is ONE Decision
Greene’s Release Podcasts >> All It Takes Is One Decision >> Transcript
All it takes is one decision, to totally transform your life.
That is the key!
We make decisions everyday, conscious decisions about what we want and don’t want. And often change our mind the next day or don’t follow up.
But there is another kind of decision, that shakes the very core of our being. I am talking about spontaneous decisions.
Have you ever woken up and heard a decision come to mind out of the blue. “I am going to get a new job”, “I am going to move out of my parents house”, “I am going to find my perfect home to buy”, “I am going to become a doctor.”
And then you just do whatever is needed to fulfill them. You work hard at your study, you train for your new profession, you get a job to pay your rent. Your determination is unwavering.
These decisions are spontaneous statements of intent. They are statements of what has to become your reality, no questions, no doubts. They are what you have decided has to be.
These decisions are like conclusions. We often hear ourselves saying “Enough. I have had enough and refuse to keep living like this. It has to change.”
It was a spontaneous decision that changed my life. I will never forget it. As I was walking through my home office, I suddenly heard the thought. “No more. Enough is enough. I refuse to keep living this, and would rather leave than keep living it. I will not accept this nightmare any longer.”
A second spontaneous decision immediately followed “I will give it three months to change, or I am out of here.”
These spontaneous decisions set me free. I no longer had to keep thinking and worrying about my circumstances. I didn’t have to figure anything out or find the answers. I didn’t have to do anything. I gave up all control.
Within 2 weeks everything changed, and for some reason I did my first release, spontaneously, automatically knowing what to do and how to do it. And it all went from there. Everything you hear here, see on our website, read in our workbooks, all came from those 2 spontaneous decisions.
I think perhaps, that when we make spontaneous decisions we give up our conscious need to use our mind to resolve the issue, We no longer have to be in control. We don’t have to find the answer. We give up and are done with playing the game. And that opens the door to allow the deeper part of ourselves to take over and lead the way.
I have lost count of the number of people who, after completing a release session, say “this is funny because it was only yesterday that I decided that I didn’t want t be angry anymore.” “what a great coincidence, this week I have been wondering why I keep sabotaging my life”, “I have been asking for answers so this is perfect timing.”
All it takes is one decision and everything changes!
I met a lady who wanted to stop living an angry life. She didn’t understand it, but was sick and tired of fighting with her spouse, and feeling so angry all the time. Enough was enough, she wanted answers.
We did the release, and to her surprise, it led back to early childhood when she was sexually abused by a pillar of her community. What a devastating experience for any child to have.
Imagine the consequences! This poor little child endured something so horrific that it shaped who she grew up to be. An angry person.
I got an email the next day saying “I can’t believe it. I don’t feel angry any more. My husband tried to trick me into getting angry, and he couldn’t. I feel so calm and at peace. I cant believe it! I feel like a kid again, and cant wipe the smile from my face. I am happy! My son asked “who stole my mother” he’s never known me not to be angry.
One decision that she didn’t want to be an angry person, transformed this woman’s life.
I have met and worked with many grieving people years or decades after the loss of their loved one. It is like they are screaming out with their minds, “I hurt and I want it to stop.”
The releases are like taking the lid of a jar stuffed with pain. It all comes bursting out, ready to be released.
One particular woman made the spontaneous decision that she wanted to be free of the pain of grief, and then within a week came to our site greenesrelease.com. I took her through a release, and realized the horrific pain she lived with each day. She was literally filled with pain.
Like many people, this woman immersed herself in the world of grief for years, retelling her story constantly, talking to other grieving people, writing about it, all trying to find a way out of this pain.
The release was amazing, as it freed her of a nightmare memory. Then we worked together for 6 months while she worked through our Heal Your Self workbook.
And guess what? After years and years of pain and torment over the loss of her beloved husband, this woman is now free! She is totally free of grief. She no longer walks in the grief world, as she no longer has any need to.
This amazing woman has finished her grief experience and freed herself to go on to create and live a wonderful life.
All because she made a spontaneous decision that “enough was enough”
So are you ready to change your life? When are you going to make your spontaneous decision that enough is enough?
When are you going to be ready to end this nightmare you currently live? So you can go on to live its exact opposite?
So How do you make a spontaneous decision?
There is no majikal formula to set this spontaneous decision in motion, but several components are involved.
1. Stop accepting the status quo without question.
2. Get sick of your circumstances.
Normally you stop yourself from feeling how uncomfortable it is, but how can you get sick of it if you never let yourself feel how bad it really is?
Plan a weekend to sit in it. I mean really sit in it. Look around at your environment, notice and feel it all. See how run down or dirty your house is, hold the pile of unpaid bills in your hands, feel them demanding payment. Remember the fights you keep having with your spouse, how uncomfortable they feel.
Sit in your current circumstance and let yourself feel it fully, for the first time. Feel the fear, the panic, how uncomfortable it is, how horrible it is. Stop sugar coating it and experience the reality of your current.
Write about it, in vivid detail. Write about having to take food back to the store and feel how embarrassed you were. Write about the things you do to sugar coat and ignore it. The routines, the rituals. Get a clear picture of your current life.
Now, is this how you want to live? Have you had enough of it yet? Are you ready to get sick of it?
Feel and think about it, build yourself to the point where you refuse to keep living like this. Feel sick of it!
Do not accept your life circumstances as they are! Refuse to accept this as how life should be. Demand more. Want more for yourself.
Never accept any uncomfortable circumstance ever again! Demand more of yourself and more of your life!
Of course you can’t keep living in this focused attention indefinitely. And your spontaneous decision will come, and you will naturally do whatever it takes to resolve and end it.
Without any need to figure it out!
Because you will just do what needs doing, and your life will change forever..
I wish you all that you can dream for yourself!






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